I've definitely been guilty of making quick judgments or sharing stories that weren't mine to tell, thinking it's harmless
it took extensive effort and negotiation because most leaf dealers had abandoned the high end izmir tobaccos required for the taste and flavor i was seeking
Ill tell you, he continued
It was a homey comfort, or a shared pleasure of (dare I say, fraternal) fellowship at a pub along with a pint, or an unhurried habit of contemplative repose - thoughtful and unhurried - and "present in the moment" - grateful and affirming of who you are, and maybe who you're with, even if it's just your own thoughts, (and prayers, if like me, you believe you're never truly alone)
The tobacco reminded me of a cigar room in a tobacco store, it was very nice